The vibrational dynamics of isolated water molecules dissolved in the nonpolar organic liquids 1,2-dichloroethane (C(2)H(4)Cl(2)) and d-chloroform (CDCl(3)) have been studied using an IR pump-probe experiment with approximately 2 ps time resolution. Analyzing transient, time, and spectrally resolved data in both the OH bending and the OH stretching region, the anharmonic constants of the bending overtone (v=2) and the bend-stretch combination modes were obtained. Based on this knowledge, the relaxation pathways of single water molecules were disentangled comprehensively, proving that the vibrational energy of H(2)O molecules is relaxing following the scheme OH stretch-->OH bend overtone-->OH bend-->ground state. A lifetime of 4.8+/-0.4 ps is determined for the OH bending mode of H(2)O in 1,2-dichloroethane. For H(2)O in CDCl(3) a numerical analysis based on rate equations suggests a bending overtone lifetime of tau(020)=13+/-5 ps. The work also shows that full 2-dimensional (pump-probe) spectral resolution with access to all vibrational modes of a molecule is required for the comprehensive analysis of vibrational energy relaxation in liquids.