Late-onset Alzheimer’s disease (AD) and related dementia (ADRD) are serious neurodegenerative disorders among aging populations. The progress of AD/ADRD cultivates over years to decades in humans and several months in animal models. Ca<sup>2+</sup> homeostasis is a core function of neurons where the N-methyl-D-aspartate (NMDA) receptor plays a major role in excitatory neuronal activities. The Ca<sup>2+</sup> hypothesis of AD proposes that even slight but sustained Ca<sup>2+</sup> dyshomeostasis in the brain is a critical pathophysiology or pathogenesis of AD. However, instigating factors like the trigger and time/duration of the Ca<sup>2+</sup> dysregulation in AD progression have been largely obscure, while β-amyloid (Aβ) peptides are often indicated as the trigger. Hyperactivities of excitatory neurons and NMDARs have been implicated in AD as a main mediating mechanism caused by AD pathologies such as Aβ deposition. NMDAR overactivation is restrained by the unique regulatory GluN3 subunits (GluN3A and GluN3B; previously known as NR3A and NR3B). Expression of GluN3A in the receptor complex reduces NMDAR currents and Ca<sup>2+</sup> influx, while deletion of GluN3A causes larger NMDA currents and elevated intracellular Ca<sup>2+</sup>. Significant GluN3A levels are detected in both rodent and human adult/aging brains. We hypothesized that the “gatekeeper” role of GluN3A is constantly required for Ca<sup>2+</sup> homeostasis and normal aging; its deficiency can lead to slowly evolved “degenerative excitotoxicity”. Our in vitro, ex vivo, and in vivo studies using GluN3A knockout (KO) mice of young and older ages revealed neuronal hyperactivity, moderate but sustained elevation of cytosolic Ca<sup>2+</sup>, chronic inflammation, neuronal loss/apoptosis, synaptic impairments and progressive cognitive deficits. The AD hallmarks of Aβ and tau pathology were identified after, but not before, cognition decline. In the “gain of function” experiment, expression of GluN3A in the GluN3A KO brain prevented AD progression. Specific regional knockdown of GluN3A in the cortex and hippocampus of wild-type mice at the adult age (3 months old) resulted in similar AD/ADRD phenotypic alterations in the following 3-6 months. The NMDAR antagonist memantine (MEM) is approved by FDA as a symptomatic treatment for moderate-severe AD patients. According to the chronic neurohyperactivity in AD progression and the modified Ca<sup>2+</sup> hypothesis that Ca<sup>2+</sup> dysregulation is an early and “life-long” pathogenesis, the maintenance of NMDAR normal activity by MEM or other safe NMDAR antagonists could be a disease-modifying early treatment in preclinical/prodromal stages. This prediction is endorsed by clinical trials using MEM and other NMDAR antagonists in mild cognitive impairment (MCI) and early AD patients, showing beneficial effects of maintaining cognitive functions. Consistently, we showed that, in GluN3A KO mice and 5xFAD mice, early and chronic MEM treatment (started at 3-month of age and lasted for 3-6 months) prevented or attenuated AD phenotypes. Meanwhile, the chronic MEM therapy in mice showed preconditioning effect of neuroprotection against ischemic stroke that strikes over 50% AD patients. Large clinical trials of long-term and more systematic examinations on AD/ADRD progression and the comorbidity of stroke are warranted for this innovative therapy. Our results support the modification of Ca<sup>2+</sup> hypothesis of AD with the novel amyloid-independent mechanism. Specifically, the deficiency of GluN3A alone causes lifelong Ca<sup>2+</sup>-related progression of AD pathophysiology and amyloid pathology. The long-term GluN3A modulation of NMDARs signifies new therapeutic targets and possible preventive interventions for late-onset AD/ ADRD.