The increasing number of distributed generators (DGs) leads to the frequent occurrence of voltage violations in distribution networks. The soft open point (SOP) can adjust the transmission power between feeders, leading to the evolution of traditional distribution networks into flexible distribution networks (FDN). The problem of voltage violations can be effectively tackled with the flexible control of SOPs. However, the centralized control method for SOP may make it difficult to achieve real-time control due to the limitations of communication. In this paper, a distributed voltage control method is proposed for FDN with SOPs based on the multi-agent deep reinforcement learning (MADRL) method. Firstly, a distributed voltage control framework is proposed, in which the updating algorithm of the intelligent agent of MADRL is expounded considering experience sharing. Then, a Markov decision process for multi-area SOP coordinated voltage control is proposed, where the control areas are divided based on electrical distance. Finally, an IEEE 33-node test system and a practical system in Taiwan are used to verify the effectiveness of the proposed method. It shows that the proposed multi-area SOP coordinated control method can achieve real-time control while ensuring a better control effect.