The constant pressure difference regulating mechanism is widely used in aeroengine fuel servo metering systems, and it almost decides the metering precision. However, the design theory and design method of the available constant pressure difference regulating mechanism are unclear, and it is difficult to follow the high stability, high accuracy, and high robustness requirements of the modern aeroengine fuel servo metering system. In this paper, the design theory of the constant pressure difference regulating mechanism is revealed, and it indicates that it consists of two basic control units: a state feedback stabilization controller to ensure the asymptotic stability and disturbance rejection performance; and a servo and feed-forward compensator to ensure the asymptotic tracking ability. In addition, based on the frequency domain analysis method, the decisive influences about the control gains of the two control units on the dynamic performance and stability are analyzed. On this basis, a frequency domain design method of the two core control gains is proposed to complete the design task of the closed-loop system. The simulation results show that, under the adverse conditions of 1 MPa strong step disturbance of the inlet pressure and 50 mm2 strong step disturbance of the variable inlet flow area, the steady-state working range of the controlled pressure difference meets 0.92 ± 0.01 MPa, the steady-state error is not more than 1%, the regulation time is not more than 0.01 s, the dynamic overshoot is not more than 10%, and the designed phase margin is more than 70°.