As contemporary aerospace and radar-detecting technologies evolve, hypersonic vehicle components must avoid electromagnetic wave (EMW) detection in extremely harsh environments. In this study, lightweight porous SiC/Si3N4 composite nanowires (SiC/Si3N4 NWs), exhibiting excellent performance of broadband electromagnetic wave absorption (EWA), were successfully prepared via a facile electrostatic spinning and heat treatment in nitrogen atmosphere using phenol-formaldehyde resin (PR) and silica solution as precursors. The nanowire (NW) was composed of carbon-rich SiC and Si3N4 nanograins, and its microstructure and phase composition were regulated by carbon thermal reduction temperature. The EWA performance of the nanowires obtained through carbothermal reduction at 1300 °C, 1400 °C,and 1500 °C was investigated. The nanowires with 15 wt% obtained at 1500 °C were added to a paraffin matrix and the effective absorption bandwidth (EAB) was observed to cover almost the entire C, X, and Ku bands (4.2–18 GHz). Moreover, for a coating thickness of only 2.1 mm, the EAB was as high as 7.12 GHz (10.88–18 GHz), covering the entire Ku-band and achieving a minimum value of reflection loss (RLmin) of - 48 dB at 6.5 GHz. The 3D network structure of SiC/Si3N4 NWs with large specific surface areas and numerous mesopores extended the electromagnetic wave (EMW attenuation route and effectively improved the EWA performance through interfacial synergy between the carbon-rich SiC and Si3N4 nanograins). The strong absorption and wide EAB of the porous SiC/Si3N4 NWs rendered them highly suitable lightweight EMW absorbers in harsh, high-temperature environments.