The limitations of prohibitive computation and Frequency Principle remain difficult for deep learning methods to effectively resolve multi-scale problems. In this work, a novel higher-order multi-scale physics-informed neural network (HOMS-PINN) framework is developed to compute the elastic problems of authentic composite materials with strongly discontinuous and high-contrast material parameters, which inherits the advantages of higher-order multi-scale method and physics-informed neural network, and halves the computational expense remarkably in comparison with direct PINN simulation. In the numerical framework of HOMS-PINN method, two types of network structures including single neural networks and independent neural networks are designed to mesh-free solve lower-order and higher-order microscopic unit cell (UC) functions, and macroscopic homogenization equations of multi-scale composites, which are then assembled into higher-order multi-scale solutions for multi-scale elastic problems by using automatic differentiation technology. Moreover, transfer learning is introduced to extend HOMS-PINN framework accelerating simulation of multi-scale elastic problems for composite materials with high-contrast mechanical parameters. Furthermore, the error estimate of the proposed HOMS-PINN method is demonstrated under some assumptions. Finally, numerous numerical experiments including high-contrast, multi-inclusion and three-dimensional composites are presented to validate the accuracy and effectiveness of HOMS-PINN method, especially for accurately capturing the sharply oscillatory behaviors in micro-scale. This study offers a robust HOMS-PINN computational framework that enables the simulation and analysis of large-scale mechanical problems of authentic composite materials.