With the rapid development of the Internet, the scale of the online advertising market has expanded rapidly, and display advertising has become the most popular means of publicity. Accurate advertising recommendation is the guarantee of Internet platform revenue, and accurate advertising click rate prediction is the premise of accurate recommendation and abnormal advertising detection. Therefore, such monitoring and recommendation can be achieved through machine learning combined with artificial intelligence, and the application of intelligent AD recommendation systems and abnormal AD monitoring in the field of machine learning represents a complex integration of technologies to improve the precision and effectiveness of digital marketing strategies. Intelligent AD recommendation systems utilize advanced machine learning algorithms to analyze user behavior and preferences to deliver tailored AD content. These systems leverage vast amounts of user data, including browsing history, purchase history, and engagement metrics, to predict and present the most relevant ads. This paper analyzes the data mining in machine learning algorithms and the real-time online recommendation algorithm of Gaussian process, and analyzes the abnormal advertising monitoring system for maintaining the integrity and efficiency of advertising campaigns. By using machine learning technology for pattern recognition and anomaly detection, various measures and indicators of advertising campaigns can be monitored in a vigilant manner.