Despite the clear potential of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) to affect host mating behaviour via both host and parasite evolution, there have been few explicit tests of the relationships between STDs and sexual behaviour in animals. We investigated the effect of infection on host sexual behaviour within an invertebrate system. Coccipolipus hippodamiae is a sexually transmitted ectoparasite of Adalia bipunctata, the two-spot ladybird. The parasite feeds on host haemolymph, develops rapidly, and is deleterious to A.bipunctata hosts of both sexes. We examined whether infection affected mating success, and whether males or females showed any preferences with respect to infection status. We observed field mating rates of infected and uninfected ladybirds and carried out controlled laboratory experiments. We did not detect any negative effects of parasite infection on host mating vigour, nor any evidence for the existence of a host mating preference based on infection status. In addition, there was no evidence of parasite-induced changes in behaviour, such as increased promiscuity, which would increase transmission opportunities for the parasite. In summary, contrary to a body of speculation, there was no evidence of any connection between infection and mating rate, in either sex. We discuss possible explanations for these findings.