Phenomenology of Open Online Voluntary YouTube Confessionals: Exploring Data Mining for Understanding the Phenomenon of White Males without Friends in the Age of Social Media

Abstract

This study explored YouTube confessionals of white males in their 30s who identified as friendless, aiming to understand the implications of these public declarations and the role of YouTube as a confessional platform. Conducted on June 15, 2024, the research employed a thematic analysis of four YouTube videos, examining the transcripts for themes of isolation and vulnerability within the framework of Heideggerian phenomenology. The confessionals revealed deep emotional struggles related to loneliness and social anxiety. Participants shared their challenges in forming meaningful friendships, often citing childhood trauma, relocation, and societal pressures as contributing factors. Despite professional success, they expressed feelings of rejection and difficulty in connecting with others. Common themes included the effects of introversion, the differing social needs in relationships, and the pursuit of genuine connections. Each narrative emphasized self-reliance, personal growth, and the importance of overcoming internal barriers to achieve happiness amidst persistent isolation.