INVESTIGATING EXPERIENCE OF MOTHERS SINGING TO THEIR INFANTS: IN SEARCH OF MEANINGS

Abstract

Singing to infants has been a part of mothers’ lives across the ages and in different cultures. The study of mothers singing to infants tends to focus on how and why songs facilitate mother-infant communication, identifying its effects and benefits for mother and infant. Little is known, however, about the mothers’ subjective lived experience of singing. The present phenomenological study aims to contribute to this body of knowledge through a psychological comprehension, in search of meanings, through a Humanistic lens. Thirteen individual dialogical encounters were conducted with Brazilian and American fist-time mothers with infants up to 18 months old. Comprehensive narratives based on those individual encounters were written and analyzed by the researcher, and a synthesis narrative was built revealing the structural elements of the experience of singing for mothers. The significant elements that emerged were: singing as a specific way of communicating with the child, allowing the establishment of an emotional bond, a way for the mothers to better know their infant, a means of recognizing themselves in the condition of being mothers, an interesting form of sharing personal values and family customs, and a creative form of expressing themselves. All these meanings enable the development of the mothers’ potential personal growth. This article also presents a brief discussion of these results in the context of contemporary psychological scientific data and suggests further research paths.