Abstract Background Since the WHO reports on Disrespect and Abuse (D&A) in childbirth, there was an increase in studies across Europe exploring women’s experiences. Even though contentious, a 2024 EU Committee report adopts the term obstetric violence. With the highest caesarean section (C/S) in the EU, the birth environment in Cyprus raises questions about informed choices. Methods The RESPECT mixed-method study gained insights into the experiences of women in Cyprus with focus groups (N = 6, 28 women) and survey (online and in-person) tapping on Rights for Respectful Maternity Care (RMC), as measured by Person-Centred Maternity Care scale (PCMC), autonomy in decision making (MADM), dignity and respect (MoRi) and mistreatment (MIST). Results Among 516 responses (61% first childbirth, 38.5% vaginal, 15% public sector, consistent with official statistics), the 35-item PCMC (range 0-100%) represents a continuum of quality standards deviations (Med=81, IQR=61-92). Lowest scores were recorded for “Communication & Autonomy”, with 28.5% reporting ‘feeling pushed into a decision’, with associations observed with younger age, first-time birth, mode and place of birth, highlighting social inequity. Based on MADM, 23.8%, 14.1% and 14.7% women were classified as having moderate, low or very low autonomy. For mistreatment, 32.0% reported at least one of 11 indicators, most commonly privacy violations and no freedom of movement. Formula feeding against wishes (13.6%), vaginal examinations (11.6%) and episiotomy (7.8%) where most common among 33.7% reporting procedures without consent. Deductive content analysis of narratives according to RMC triangulate findings of weak shared decision-making processes. Conclusions Given that C/S reduction was identified as a national priority in Cyprus, the RESPECT findings can widen the conversation about quality improvement and form the basis to engage with local stakeholders in an open-dialogue about RMC, guided by participatory action research principles. Key messages • In the medicalized birth environment of Cyprus, women report a range of sub-optimal practices, with ethical implications, primarily affecting the right to autonomy. • Adopting the Respectful Maternity Care framework, the findings can stimulate and shape quality improvement efforts in a participatory and inclusive process with local stakeholders.