In this paper, non-woven fabric and glass fiber fabric were used to prepare resin-based absorbing composite. The thermal expansion coefficient and the microwave absorbing properties of the absorbing composites with different glass fiber volume fraction were studied. The results show that the simulation results of the thermal expansion coefficient calculated by Schapery model are inconsistent with the experimental results, the metallographic results were studied to reveal that it is the added absorbent in the composite that partially replaced the resin at the interface between resin and fiber bundle causes the parameters of the material substituted in the Schapery model to be improper. A different simulation model was proposed to introduce a set of different parameters of the material to reduce the error between simulation and experiment results and the simulation results show that the error is reduced from a maximum of 53 % to a minimum of 3 %. Meanwhile the microwave absorbing properties show that the absorbing peaks of the composite materials move to low frequency with the increasing glass fiber volume fraction and the minimum reflection loss (RL) first increase and then decrease. The metallographic results show that the different distribution of absorbent in the composites within different reinforced fibers causes the movement of the absorbing peaks and the change of its minimum RL. Those research results lay a foundation for the further popularization and application of the absorbing composites.