Understanding the neural basis of social play in juvenile rats may ultimately help restore social play deficits in autistic children. We previously found that administration of a vasopressin (AVP) V1a receptor (V1aR) antagonist into the lateral septum (LS) increased social play behavior in male juvenile rats and decreased it in females. Here, we demonstrate that glutamate, but not GABA, is involved in this sex-specific regulation. First, we found a sex difference in extracellular LS glutamate/GABA ratio (lower in females) that was eliminated by V1aR antagonist infusion in the LS that caused an increase in glutamate release in females only. Second, infusion of the glutamate receptor agonist L-glutamic acid into the LS mimicked the V1aR antagonist-induced decrease in female social play while preventing the increase in male social play. Third, infusion of the glutamate receptor antagonists AP-5 and CNQX into the LS prevented the V1aR antagonist-induced decrease in female social play. Fourth, there were no sex differences in extracellular GABA release in the LS upon either V1aR antagonist infusion or in social play expression upon infusion of the GABA-A receptor agonist muscimol into the LS, suggesting that GABA is not involved in the sex-specific regulation of social play by the LS-AVP system. Last, we found no sex differences in the type (GAD1/2, somatostatin, calbindin 1, Sox9) of V1aR-expressing LS cells, suggesting other cellular mechanisms mediating the sex-specific effects on glutamate release in the LS by the LS-AVP system. In conclusion, we demonstrate that the LS-AVP system regulates social play sex-specifically via glutamatergic neurotransmission. These findings have relevance for potential sex-specific effects of AVP-based treatment of social deficits in children.