Menopause is an increasingly discussed topic in recent years. More women are demanding consultancy and help from their doctors via different channels, be it online or in menopause centers.The term genitourinary syndrome of menopause (GSM) comprises vaginal and urological symptoms such as mucosal dryness, itching and burning, dysuria or bleeding and pain during sexual intercourse. GSM can strongly affect quality of life, is common if estrogen deficiency has lasted for 3 months and can be treated locally with very low doses of the weak estrogen estriol."Not feeling like myself anymore" - symptomatic perimenopause may present with sleep disturbances, mastalgia, mood swings, palpitations, panic attacks, but also entail joint pain, vertigo, headache, and brain fog - even years before menopause and in the presence of still adequate estrogen levels. In an online study, 20% of women in the menopausal transition reported symptoms which they could not explain, and which may cause fears of serious illness. This can lead to extensive medical work-ups if the possibility of perimenopause as the cause is disregarded.(Peri-)menopausal complaints last much longer than previously thought: The Study of women's health across the nation (SWAN) reported longer duration of vasomotor symptoms (median: 11,8 years) in women who were already affected in early perimenopause, while those in whom VMS started only after menopause experienced a shorter duration of symptoms (median: 3,4 years).Female hormones protect women from fatty streaks and hypertension, but menopausal hormone therapy (MHT) has positive effects only if started in the first decade after menopause. The interaction with stress, aging and lifestyle factors is complex.For the treatment of VMS, German and international guidelines list both drug and non-drug or non-prescription options, although there is no clear data on their effectiveness.Fezolinetant, a Neurokinin-3 receptor antagonist, is now available in Germany for the treatment of vasomotor symptoms in postmenopausal women with contraindications or aversion against steroid hormones. It modulates the thermoregulation center in the hypothalamus by blocking the KNDy-neurons. Studies on Elinzanetant, another representative of this class of drugs, are still ongoing.