Mean spherical approximation (MSA) for electrolyte solution has been extended to investigate the role of partial solvent polarization densities around an ion in a completely asymmetric binary dipolar mixture. The differences in solvent diameters, dipole moments, and ionic size are incorporated systematically within the MSA framework in the present theory for the first time. In addition to the contributions due to difference in dipole moments, the solvent-solvent and ion-solvent size ratios are found to significantly affect the nonideality in binary dipolar mixtures. Subsequently, the theory is used to investigate the role of ion-solvent and solvent-solvent size ratios in determining the nonideality in Born free energy of solvation of a unipositive rigid ion in alcohol-water and dimethyl sulfoxide-acetonitrile mixtures, where the solvent components are represented only by their molecular diameters and dipole moments. Nonideality in Born free energy of solvation in such simplified mixtures is found to be stronger for smaller ions. The slope of the nonideality for smaller alkali metal ions in methanol-water mixture is found to be opposite to that for larger ion, such as quaternary tertiary butyl ammonium ion. For ethanol-water mixtures, the slopes are in the same direction for all the ions studied here. These results are in qualitative agreement with experiments, which is surprising as the present MSA approach does not include the hydrogen bonding and hydrophobic interactions present in the real mixtures. The calculated partial polarization densities around a unipositive ion also show the characteristic deviation from ideality and reveal the microscopic origin of the ion and solvent size dependent preferential solvation. Also, the excess free energy of mixing (in the absence of any ion) for these binary mixtures has been calculated and a good agreement between theory and experiment has been found.