Self-incompatibility and recurrent transitions to self-compatibility have shaped the extant mating systems underlying the nonrandom mating critical for speciation in angiosperms. Linkage between self-incompatibility and speciation is illustrated by the shared pollen rejection pathway between self-incompatibility and interspecific unilateral incompatibility (UI) in the Brassicaceae. However, the pollen discrimination system that activates this shared pathway for heterospecific pollen rejection remains unknown. Here we show that Stigma UI3.1, the genetically identified stigma determinant of UI in Arabidopsis lyrata × Arabidopsis arenosa crosses, encodes the S-locus-related glycoprotein 1 (SLR1). Heterologous expression of A. lyrata or Capsella grandiflora SLR1 confers on some Arabidopsis thaliana accessions the ability to discriminate against heterospecific pollen. Acquisition of this ability also requires a functional S-locus receptor kinase (SRK), whose ligand-induced dimerization activates the self-pollen rejection pathway in the stigma. SLR1 interacts with SRK and interferes with SRK homomer formation. We propose a pollen discrimination system based on competition between basal or ligand-induced SLR1-SRK and SRK-SRK complex formation. The resulting SRK homomer levels would be sensed by the common pollen rejection pathway, allowing discrimination among conspecific self- and cross-pollen as well as heterospecific pollen. Our results establish a mechanistic link at the pollen recognition phase between self-incompatibility and interspecific incompatibility.