A modified perturbation theory is developed for the calculation of the time-dependent wave function describing the propagation of an atom in a two-mode laser field. With the mode frequencies nearly equal, a first approximation is obtained that reproduces and extends known results, for both resonant and nonresonant transitions. This lowest-order solution sums terms that describe the absorption of a photon from one mode and emission into the other, leaving the total number of photons unchanged and shifting the momentum of the atom accordingly. Corrections are generated by expansion of a resolvent from which the nearly degenerate states have been projected out. These approximate solutions are used to construct asymptotic states in a formulation of atom-atom scattering in the two-mode field. In close analogy with the soft-photon approximation, a ``soft-pair'' approximation is developed based on the dominance of those asymptotic interactions in which the transfer of energy from the field to the atom is small, allowing one to relate the scattering amplitude in the presence of the field to the field-free amplitude. When the atomic ground state and an excited state are closely coupled by the field, the asymptotic wave function can have mixed parity allowing for long-range contributions to the effective potential. In addition to an enhancement of forward-scattering probabilities, this leads to a threshold anomaly that is analyzed here, in the resonant case, with the aid of a modified effective-range theory.