Plasma atomization is a technology that can produce high sphericity, small particle diameters, and high-purity copper powder, which is of great significance for the development of metal additive manufacturing. At present, although plasma atomization can realize the industrial preparation of spherical copper powder, there are still some problems, such as unclear understanding of the atomization process and a lack of theoretical support for powder quality control. This leads to the inability to predict the average particle diameter of powder in advance based on the actual atomization conditions and to optimize the process parameters, which seriously affects the further development of the plasma atomization process. We mainly studied the non-stationary simulation of a DC argon plasma torch. The purpose of this paper was to study the specific influence law of the average particle diameter of the powder in the process of plasma atomization by means of numerical simulation and experimental observation. The aim was to establish the mapping relationship between the atomization condition and the average particle diameter of the powder and realize the controllable preparation of the plasma atomized powder. At the same time, we used industrial-grade plasma atomization equipment to carry out pulverizing experiments to verify the plasma atomization theory and the powder average particle diameter control scheme proposed in this paper, thus proving the reliability of this study.