The joint beamforming optimization from the perspective of the bit error rate (BER) in a reconfigurable intelligent surface (RIS)–assisted intelligent communication system is studied in this paper. A genetic algorithm (GA) is investigated to address the bottleneck of the system performance based on the dynamic adaptability theory. However, the bottleneck is caused by the interaction between the active and passive beamforming. To tackle the constraints of conventional optimization approaches, the hybrid scheme is proposed to combine the GA optimization (GAO) and fully connected neural network (FCNN) strategy. Specifically, the intelligent collaborative tuning of system parameters is achieved using this proposed technique. Simulation findings indicate that the hybrid scheme not only simplifies the calculation process to obtain the optimal network parameters, but also effectively optimizes the system structure by dynamically adjusting the RIS reflection configuration. Based on this, the signal transmission quality is improved, interference is reduced, and the stable and efficient operation of the RIS–assisted intelligent communication system is ensured in the complex wireless transmission scenario.