This study investigates the manufacturing, testing, and analysis of ultra-thick laminated polymer matrix composite (PMC) beams with the aim of developing high-performance PMC leaf springs for automotive applications. An innovative aspect of this study is the integration of Fiber Bragg Grating (FBG) sensors and thermocouples (TCs) to monitor residual strain and exothermic reactions in composite structures during curing and post-curing manufacturing cycles. Additionally, the Calibration Coefficients (CCs) are calculated using Strain Gauge measurement results under static three-point bending tests. A major part of the study focuses on developing a properly correlated Finite Element (FE) model with large deflection (LD) effects using geometrical nonlinear analysis (GNA) to understand the deformation behavior of ultra thick composite beam (ComBeam) samples, advancing the understanding of large deformation behavior and filling critical research gaps in composite materials. This model will help assess the internal strain distribution, which is verified by correlating data from FBG sensors, Strain Gauges (SGs), and FE analysis. In addition, this research focuses on the application of FBG sensors in structural health monitoring (SHM) in fatigue tests under three-point bending with the support of load-deflection sensors: a new approach for composites at this scale. This study revealed that the fatigue performance of ComBeam samples drastically decreased with increasing displacement ranges, even at the same maximum level, underscoring the potential of FBG sensors to enhance SHM capabilities linked to smart maintenance.