In conventional ferroelectric materials, polarization is an intrinsic property limited by bulk crystallographic structure and symmetry. Recently, it has been demonstrated that polar order can also be accessed using inherently non-polar van der Waals materials through layer-by-layer assembly into heterostructures, wherein interfacial interactions can generate spontaneous, switchable polarization. Here we show that deliberate interlayer rotations in multilayer van der Waals heterostructures modulate both the spatial ordering and switching dynamics of polar domains. The engendered tunability is unparalleled in conventional bulk ferroelectrics or polar bilayers. By means of operando transmission electron microscopy we show how alterations of the relative rotations of three WSe2 layers produce structural polytypes with distinct arrangements of polar domains with either a global or localized switching response. Furthermore, the presence of uniaxial strain generates structural anisotropy that yields a range of switching behaviours, coercivities and even tunable biased responses. We also provide evidence of mechanical coupling between the two interfaces of the trilayer, a key consideration for the control of switching dynamics in polar multilayer structures more broadly.