In the context of rare earth element extraction using solid-liquid process, hybrid materials having specific functional group were largely studied. However, there is a lack of in situ characterization method to understand how the functional group behaves when interacts with the rare earth element. Here, we propose a new experimental method to understand the interaction between immobilized functional group and REE in aqueous media using a well-characterized model system coupled to surface analyses. Model system was prepared by grafting diglycolamide functionalized silane on planar silica substrate. In order to have a clear description of the morphology and the structure of the model system, the silane grafting process was characterized using contact angle measurement, X-Ray Reflectivity, peak force measurements by Atomic Force Microscopy and in situ analysis by Fourier Transformed Infrared Spectroscopy in Attenuated Total Reflection. Afterwards, the behavior of the grafted molecules was investigated in neodymium aqueous solution at various pH by in situ infrared spectroscopy and hard X-ray reflectivity characterizations. Here, we highlight that the complexation of Nd3+ by the diglycolamide function is correlated with its dehydration and a modification of the molecule configuration.