Although China's energy consumption is very high, foreign demand has become crucial factor affecting China's energy consumption due to exports. A detailed analysis of the embodied energy intensity of China's exports from the demand side could provide valuable insight into promoting China's energy-saving development. This paper explores disparities in the embodied energy intensity of China's exports to different trading partners and the energy supply structure behind these exports. Furthermore, it explores the driving factors of export embodied energy intensity using multiplicative structural decomposition analysis. The results show that China's export embodied energy intensity to developing countries, such as India, is higher than that of European and American countries; however, a convergence trend has emerged over time. Regarding the driving factors influencing changes in export embodied energy intensity over time, the sectoral energy intensity effect plays a pivotal role in promoting its decline, while the production structure and export structure effects change from inhibition to weak promotion. The adjustment of export structure has significant potential for reducing China's export embodied energy intensity, especially in emerging economies. Finally, this paper proposes policy directions for collaborative opening up, energy saving, and emission reduction goals.