Although the affirmative action movement of sexual minorities is gradually rising in the world, the survival situation of sexual minorities is still not optimistic. The number of sexual minority groups in China is huge. With the development of society, they have received more and more attention, but these groups are still in the shadow. Society still has a lot of misconceptions and stereotypes, which not only makes them discriminated against, but also aggravates their life pressure, and even affects their survival and life. Based on previous research reports on sexual minorities, this paper analyzes the plight of neutral minorities in China from the current aspects of workplace, marriage and campus, and the causes of such problems —— socioculture and family style and school spirit. Finally, the paper summarizes and points out that the solution is to improve institutional guarantees and give full play to the guiding role of the media and education.