Bone loss is prevalent in clinical pathological phenomena such as osteoporosis, which is characterized by decreased osteoblast function and number, increased osteoclast activity, and imbalanced bone homeostasis. However, current treatment strategies for bone diseases are limited. Regulated cell death (RCD) is a programmed cell death pattern activated by the expression of specific genes in response to environmental changes. Various studies have shown that RCD is closely associated with bone diseases, and manipulating the death fate of osteoblasts could contribute to effective bone treatment. Recently, microRNA-targeting therapy drugs have emerged as a potential solution because of their precise targeting, powerful curative effect, and limited side effects. Nevertheless, their clinical application is limited by their inherent instability, easy enzymatic degradation, and poor membrane penetrability. To address this challenge, a self-assembling tetrahedral DNA nanostructure (TDN)-based microRNA (Tmi) delivery system has been proposed. TDN features excellent biocompatibility, cell membrane penetrability, serum stability, and modification versatility, making it an ideal nucleic acid carrier for miRNA protection and intracellular transport. Once inside cells, Tmi can dissociate and release miRNAs to manipulate key molecules in the RCD signaling pathway, thereby regulating bone homeostasis and curing diseases caused by abnormal RCD activation. In this paper, we discuss the impact of the miRNA network on the initiation and termination of four critical RCD programs in bone tissues: apoptosis, autophagy, pyroptosis, and ferroptosis. Furthermore, we present the Tmi delivery system as a miRNA drug vector. This provides insight into the clinical translation of miRNA nucleic acid drugs and the application of miRNA drugs in bone diseases.