ABSTRACT Objective Postpartum depression is common among new parents. Whilst there is a sizeable evidence base on mothers’ experience of the condition, much less is known about how it affects new fathers. The aim of this qualitative study was to address this gap in the literature by exploring the lived experiences of men with postpartum depression. Method Semi-structured interviews were conducted with 15 men diagnosed with postpartum depression recruited through purposive sampling from hospitals in two Indian cities. Interview transcripts were analyzed using Colaizzi's phenomenological method. Results Analysis revealed four themes: men's silence in relationships, which reflected fear of conflict and marital discord; economic burden due to their financial responsibility for a new child; sleep deprivation due to caring for the newborn; and enmeshment, which reflected interference from parents and parents-in-law. Discussion Postpartum depression has a significant impact on the mental health of fathers. Insights from this study can help clinicians and counsellors better understand the condition and support affected men. Policy-level changes such as paternal leave for fathers are also needed. There remains a lack of research into sociocultural factors associated with postpartum depression.