IntroductionThe publicity surrounding the activities of Dr. Jack Kevorkian since 1990 has brought to the forefront as a medical-ethical issue in Michigan. Proponents of assisted generally address the individual patient's right to be free of suffering and to exercise control over the circumstances of dying. Opponents commonly focus upon religious arguments against and mercy killing; the slippery slope of feared societal consequences; and violations of physician integrity should physicians become involved in deliberately causing death. As the debate is thus framed, it is easy to assume that the family has no role, or merely a peripheral one.In this paper I will address the various ways in which the family emerges as a focus of concern, upon a deeper or broader understanding of the issues raised by suicide. I will address these issues principally from the viewpoint of medical ethics, and secondarily from the perspective of a family physician; I make no pretense of being a family psychologist or family therapist.While I will show below that the family has hardly been absent from ethical discussions about suicide, the lack of clear focus upon the family dimensions of the topic may signal a more basic problem with medical ethics as it has emerged over the past quarter century in the U.S. James Lindemann Nelson (1992), among others, has criticized today's medical ethics for lacking a cogent conception of the role of the family. To put the matter in the simplest possible terms, much of modern medical ethics has been based upon the principle of respect for individual autonomy. This has led to the assumption that the family enters in either as a mere extension of individual autonomy (as when, for instance, a patient who was brought up as a Jehovah's Witness freely chooses to forego a blood transfusion), or else as a threat to autonomy (as when, for instance, a reluctant Jehovah's Witness refuses a transfusion, and the medical caregivers suspect that he would have accepted it but for undue pressure from family members). The possibility that an individual possesses and exercises autonomy only within the context of a set of social relationships, among which the family is pivotal, seems not to be appreciated sufficiently in many ethical analyses. A careful study of the family dimensions of may help in a small way to correct this blind spot.DefinitionBy physician-assisted suicide I mean a situation in which a patient kills him-or herself, using means which have been supplied by the physician, with the physician being aware that the patient intended to use those means for the purposes of suicide. Such cases generally arise with patients who suffer from terminal or irreversible, degenerative illnesses; although of course the presence of such an illness is not necessary for the definition to apply.The publicity surrounding Dr. Jack Kevorkian has led to an atypical public image of suicide. The patient's death is caused by an apparatus which the patient could not obtain or manipulate on his own; and the physician must be present at the time of death to set up the apparatus, even though the final action which throws the switch is the patient's and not the physician's. While few reliable data exist on the prevalence of any assisted practices in the U.S., it seems much more likely that the usual case of involves the physician giving the patient a lethal supply of pills, which the patient may (or may not) later elect to swallow as the disease progresses (Quill, 1991).The Family and the Decision to Request SuicideA patient seldom comes to a physician to request assistance with unless the decision has first been discussed within the family, or unless the family setting has in some way influenced the decision. Advocates of legalizing tend to view the family relationship among the potential safeguards which assure that a right to assistance will not be abused. …