The calculation of a linear quadratic regulator (LQR) control weighting matrix determines whether it can achieve optimal control. In order to solve the problem of complex calculation and low efficiency of this matrix, this paper proposed genetic algorithm–particle swarm optimizatio algorithm (GAPSO) combining genetic algorithm and particle swarm algorithm to solve the weighting matrix of LQR clutch oil pressure control strategy, so as to control the design efficiency and precision of the strategy. Subsequently, the shifting quality of a tractor was improved. A dynamic model of the shifting process was established using a comprehensive indicator that combined jerk and sliding friction work as a quadratic function. An LQR-weighted matrix calculated using GAPSO enabled optimal control strategy designing for clutch hydraulic pressure. Furthermore, the shift process from the 11th to 12th gear was analyzed via simulations during plowing operations. The simulation results show that the genetic operation of crossover and variation is introduced into PSO, and the optimization ability of PSO is improved effectively. Compared with the clutch oil pressure control strategy calculated by GAPSO with LQR weighted matrix and LQR clutch oil pressure control strategy calculated by PSO with LQR weighted matrix, the clutch heat load is slightly increased, the smoothness of shifting is greatly improved, and the shifting quality of tractors is improved. Overall, this study provides valuable insights for designing and computationally analyzing optimal clutch LQR control.