We develop a monotone finite volume element scheme for the diffusion problem on arbitrary polygonal grids inspired by the scheme in the literature ([35]). The main contributions of this paper include three aspects. Firstly, some auxiliary lines or points are introduced for any polygonal element so that it can be partitioned into two or more triangles, and one novel type of its control volume is concomitantly designed. In this paper, we mainly discuss quadrilateral grids. Secondly, some piecewise linear finite element spaces are imported for the trial spaces. Fictitious elements, continuous extensions and the nonlinear two-point flux idea can all be inherited from the triangular case. Therefore, the monotonicity of the scheme is easily proved only by the assembling of some triangles' element stiff matrices. Thirdly, the agreeable adaptability for distorted grids is completely borned. The strict convexity restriction on the grids can also be removed, the concave or severely distorted polygonal (such as quadrilateral) grids are transformed as the convex and general regular triangles. Finally, numerical results confirm its monotonicity, accuracy and stability.