Premature ejaculation (PE) remains one of the most common male disorders. Many clinical trials have shown that cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) has significant efficacy in the treatment of PE. The purpose of this article is to review the current evidence regarding the efficacy and safety of CBT combined with selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) for treating PE. We selected eligible randomized controlled trials (RCTs) from databases including Chinese National Knowledge Infrastructure (CNKI), Wanfang, VIP, China Biology Medicine (CBM), Pubmed, Embase, and Cochrane Library. All data in this paper were analyzed using STATA 17.1 software. Cochrane Evaluator's Manual 5.3 was used to assess the quality of the included literature. Data collection was conducted up until May 2024. Finally, 15 high-quality randomized controlled trials were included, with 1243 patients, 653 experimental groups and 590 control groups. The meta-analysis showed that, compared with SSRIs alone, behavioral therapy combined with SSRIs can significantly prolong the IELT of PE patients, and improve perceived control over ejaculation, Chinese Index of Premature ejaculation-5 (CIPE-5), sexual life satisfaction, and spouses' sexual life satisfaction. Furthermore, there were no significant differences in side effects between the two groups. In addition, the published bias test results showed no significant bias. CBT combined with SSRIs could be a viable alternative for the treatment of PE. Both cognitive and behavioral training or behavioral training alone as a supplement to SSRIs are effective, with no significant increase in adverse reactions.