Introduction.. Considering that today there is a significant upsurge in aggression, bullying among children and adolescents, a high level of various kinds of addictions, opposition, aggressiveness towards parents and relatives, it can be assumed that not everything is all right with the family as the primary, main institution of socialization, where the basic conditions for the development of personality occur. The studies revealed the prevalence of signs of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) among children and adolescents, which suggests the stressfulness of parental influence not only in dysfunctional families, but also in ordinary families.. Implementation of the 2nd principle of the Declaration of the Rights of the Child, regarding its right to healthy, normal conditions for physical, mental, moral and spiritual development. requires a more in-depth approach to the features and subtleties of the child's process psyche forming in interactions with parents and other close people.Purpose. The purpose of this article is to outline the tasks problem field of management personality developmentl, which consists in the formation the functional child complex I, which determines the acquisition of healthy adequate mechanisms to maintain psychological homeostasis with a focus on self-development of the psyche as a system, to prove that the obstacle becomes the parent incompetence in the child's mental development task, own psychological problems, the use the child influence methods, not realizing their stressogenicity, trauma and consequences for the integrative activity of the brain and the child psyche as a whole, leading to the emergence of a relatively fragmented dysfunctional conditions in the child's psyche, to distort the work of its I-regulatory mechanisms what appears in the external behavioral acting out children in the form of emotional incontinence, aggressiveness, disobedience, opposition, loss of motivation for purposeful educational activity. Methods. Research methods is observation, hermeneutic interpretation of the phenomenological cases, analysis, synthesis, systematization, generalization of empirical experience.Originalitу. Scientific novelty lies in the presentation of the child’s self-complex (complex I) as a systemic neoplasms, formation of self-consciousness, which is responsible for maintaining the person psychological homeostasis and shifting the emphasis in the of personality development managing tasks from external behavioral to internal, mental, i.e. to increase the functionality of the child’s complex I in order to acquire opportunities for self-development, instead of forming reactive psychological formations, protective reactive behavior. Disclosed content the normal parents personal psychological problems, related to responding to their own affective states such as fear and anxiety for a child, shame for a child, resentment, disappointment in a child, and indignation that impede adequate psychological and pedagogical interaction with children aimed at solving development problems and formation of a healthy child. Conclusion. The practical significance of the research, conclusions and prospects for further research consist in the representation of the relationships in the personality psychosomatic system: - neurobiological, hormonal, emotional, motivational, regulatory, behavioral, and activity levels, which are important for personality development management, aims at creating a system of theoretical-practical knowledge concerning the relationships between parental influences and characteristics of the child's psyche in the sense of ensuring his psyche optimal characteristics development; directs the creation a system for popularizing and training a wide range of people involved in the child’s personality formation, - knowledge, skills, and general competence to acquire optimal characteristics of his psyche functioning. In the future perspective is necessary to create the methodical, methodological developing task to support child’s personality development managing for parents, specialists of educational institutions of various levels of accreditation, aimed not only at the above goals, but also aimed at self-development, self-improvement, self-organization different ages persons.
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