Large and Median Group Dialogue Today1 Pamela Steiner2 issn 0362-4021 © 2016 Eastern Group Psychotherapy Society group, Vol. 40, No. 1, Spring 2016 65 1 Patrick de Mare called groups “median” when they comprised between eight and 25 members, approximately. 2 Senior Fellow, FXB Center for Health and Human Rights, Harvard School of Public Health. Correspondence should be addressed to Pamela Steiner, AM, EdM, EdD, LMHC, CGP, SEP, 28 Madison Street, Cambridge, MA 02138. E-mail: psteiner@hsph.harvard.edu. “To jaw jaw is always better than to war war,” quoted the New York Times on June 27, 1954. Winston Churchill’s remark was made at a White House luncheon the day before. In our GROUP article of 2000, “Dialogue Groups in the 21st Century: An Extension of Practice,” Stephanie Beukema and I wrote about deliberately convened groups, ones that are larger than therapy groups. We focused most on those groups whose purpose is to address societal-level concerns. Thanks in good part to the deep interest, understanding, revision, and commitment of the guest editor, Mark Ettin, our piece stands up very well on rereading. I was amazed and impressed! The discussion is clear, very rich, rather wise, and reasonably comprehensive. It could easily be the outline for at least a year’s graduate course! There is nothing I would change. We laid out many of the challenges of jaw-jawing. However, if we had had readers who challenged the piece, or who even responded to it, maybe I wouldn’t be saying that. Let me use that as my starting point. Who would disagree with Churchill’s claim? It seems uncontroversial. But, if it is so obviously a good idea, why is it little operationalized? Why the lack of reaction to our piece? I can offer an answer to the first question but only wish I could to the second. Happily, jaw-jawing in general is now popular as a way of dealing productively with conflict. Alternative dispute resolution has expanded, as have various approaches to interest-based negotiations. John Kerry recently reminded the world that he spent four years negotiating with the Iranians to reach an agreement to limit their production of nuclear weapons. The Central Intelligence Agency employs psychiatrists and psychologists as a matter of course, and presumably their remit is, in part, to help 66 steiner avoid physical conflict by suggesting how to improve the quality of discussion among players. Presumably, too, they were at work backstage during negotiations with Iran. Group psychotherapists specifically, however, may have little to offer to the jawjawing during negotiations that are held only among leaders and technical experts. Thus negotiations on nuclear weapons production between various parties led by the United States and the Iranians are secret and rely, I believe, most on personal connections among top leadership and between them and their technical experts. Presumably, this is also the case with regard to official negotiations on prevention of what is still-preventable anthropogenic climate disruption (ACD). Were Stephanie and I barking up the wrong tree? I hope not. Input from group psychotherapists might not aid in the negotiation room over nuclear proliferation and ACD, but might not our input as consultants be useful with the negotiators in preparation for their meetings at the table? And how much more informed, grounded, and addressable might issues of nuclear weapons proliferation and ACD be if governments were to engage their populations in facilitated dialogue groups, of different sizes, on these issues, before, during, and after negotiations? As a species, we face unprecedented, unavoidable, yet unpredictable futures. We cannot afford not to use all our collective knowledge and understanding, including about group dynamics, to try to secure a sustainable future. MY MAJOR LEARNING EXPERIENCES IN MEDIAN AND LARGE GROUPS I assume that the great majority of any people, if led by somewhat enlightened, democratic authorities, need, prefer, and desire to “live-together,” in Derrida’s (1998) useful phrase (his essay is well worth reading), in safe, respectful, and mutually productive relationships rather than in endless violent ethnic or “identity” conflicts. On the basis of my experience, I am convinced that group psychotherapists could make both a unique and essential contribution to resolving these...
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