The improved performance of recycled aggregate has an important impact on its use in engineering. In this study, to improve the weak surface properties, recycled aggregates were treated by nano-silica slurry and applied to concrete beam specimens. Under the action of cracks caused by continuous load and drying-wetting cycles with chloride ingress, the effects of different recycled aggregate additions, nano-silica contents and crack widths on the self-healing performance of cracks and the resistance to chloride ingress of the recycled concrete beams were investigated. It was found that the self-healing rate of cracks increased first and then decreased with increased nano-silica content, reaching a maximum when the content reached 0.4%. Greater amounts of additive in the recycled aggregate increased the concentration of free chloride ions in cracks. However, this concentration was found to be weakened in nano-reinforced aggregate. From a comprehensive perspective, the relative chloride ion concentration can be effectively reduced by controlling the crack width to be smaller than 0.12 mm and using improved recycled aggregates treated with 0.2% nano-silica material. This study provides a reference for the application of recycled aggregate concrete under severe environmental and load conditions.