Vehicular Edge Computing is a new computing paradigm that enables real-time response to vehicular applications and servers by performing data processing on edge computing devices near the vehicle. However, on the one hand, the random distribution and the mobility of vehicles may lead to load unbalance among different Roadside Units (RSUs), and some tasks may not be able to get timely response due to inadequate computing resources and communication resources in the high-load RSU areas. On the other hand, considering the different urgency of the tasks, the service quality of the system will be seriously affected if these tasks are not treated indistinguishably. To address the above challenges, this paper constructs a priority-aware task offloading and computing&communication resources allocation problem in a general scenario of unbalanced load among multi-RSUs, aiming at minimizing the average delay. In the problem, considering the absence of communication resources, the relay vehicle is used to offload the subtasks of splittable tasks to the RSUs that are in the neighbouring and low-load. Moreover, to take full advantage of computing resources, the task can be reasonably split into at most four parts and processed in parallel on a relay vehicle, a current RSU, a neighbouring RSU and a local vehicle. To solve the problem, a Split-Hop Offloading and Resources Allocation Strategy (SHORAS) based on an improved particle swarm optimisation algorithm is proposed, which uses a penalty function to incline resources towards high priority tasks. Simulation results show that SHORAS improves 24% in terms of the total system delay and effectively reduces the processing delay in the high-load areas compared to other strategies, while ensuring the delay requirements of high priority tasks.