Fat mass and obesity-associated protein (FTO) is the first identified N6-methyladenosine (m6A) demethylase widely distributed in various tissues in adults and children. It plays an essential role in diverse mRNA-associated processes including transcriptional stability, selective splicing, mRNA translocation, and also protein translation. Recently, emerging studies have shown that FTO is involved in the genesis and development of oral diseases. However, the correlation between FTO and oral diseases and its specific regulatory mechanism still needs further study. In this review, we will summarize the discovery, distribution, gene expression, protein structure, biological functions, inhibitors, and quantifying methods of FTO, as well as its regulatory role and mechanism in oral diseases. Notably, FTO genetic variants are strongly associated with periodontal diseases (PDs), temporomandibular joint osteoarthritis (TMJOA), and obstructive sleep apnea (OSA). Besides, the latest studies that describe the relationship between FTO and PDs, head and neck squamous cell carcinoma (HNSCCs), TMJOA, and OSA will be discussed. We elaborate on the regulatory roles of FTO in PDs, HNSCCs, and TMJOA, which are modulated through cell proliferation, cell migration, apoptosis, bone metabolism, and immune response. The review will enrich our understanding of RNA epigenetic modifications in oral diseases and present a solid theoretical foundation for FTO to serve as a novel diagnosis and prognostic biomarker for oral diseases.