A photonic lantern is a low-loss device that connects a single multimode waveguide to multiple single-mode waveguides and can enhance the beam quality of a fiber laser by adaptively controlling the optical parameters (amplitude, phase, polarization) at the input. In this work, we combined the gains and losses of individual modes within the fiber amplifier and introduced a mode content parameter at the amplifier’s output as an evaluation function to simulate mode control effects. Mode competition within the gain fiber can degrade the control effect of the fundamental mode and lead to it taking a longer time for the control to converge. Optimal parameters, such as the gain fiber length and pumping method, were identified to improve control effectiveness. Specifically, an optimal gain fiber length of 8 m was determined, and backward pumping was found to achieve higher pumping efficiency and better control results. The system demonstrated significant power amplification potential and could stabilize mode control under different pumping powers ranging from 50 W to 5 kW. In conclusion, our research demonstrates that an adaptive fiber amplifier based on a photonic lantern can achieve a stable, high-power, large-mode-field, near-fundamental-mode output from the gain fiber. Although mode competition within the gain fiber can degrade the control effect of the fundamental mode and cause the control to take a longer time to converge, these aspects should be further studied to improve the control’s effectiveness. These findings contribute to the development of advanced simulation models that guide high-power mode control experiments and deepen our understanding of physical processes in science and technology.