Vibration suppression of the series elastic actuator (SEA) used for robotic compliant grinding is significant for guaranteeing force control accuracy and stability, which is important for material removal accuracy and surface quality improvement. This paper establishes a multi-feedforward control system to achieve vibration suppression for the SEA. The hybrid optimized input shaper (HOIS), instruction reconstructor, and nonlinear friction compensation model are seamlessly integrated into the multi-feedforward control method. Combination optimization principles are employed to formulate the HOIS, ensuring selectable performances on vibration suppression, response speed, and model stability when addressing the residual vibration caused by elastic elements. Base on the inherent delay characteristics of the shaper, a head/tail compression and intermediate shift instruction reconstruction (CSIR) method is introduced to address the tracking error induced by the time-delay of the shaper. Additionally, the friction compensator is established based on the Stribeck model and integrated into the feedforward control system to mitigate the vibration caused by the low-speed viscous friction. The effectiveness of the proposed method is verified by experimental tests. Results show that the HOIS has rich optional performance and can effectively suppress vibration. The tracking error caused by the shaper is effectively mitigated through the reconstruction of instructions. Grinding tests on curved parts are conducted on the robotic grinding system with SEA used as the force-control system. Compared with the benchmark method, the developed reconstructed hybrid optimized input shaper reduces the average force tracking error, the average absolute grinding depth error, and average roughness by 26.6 %, 22.5 %, and 21.5 % respectively. At the natural frequency of the grinding system, the amplitude of the frequency spectrum with the developed multi-feedforward method decreases by 48.13 %.