AbstractCopper‐based metal–organic frameworks is anticipated to find applications in the field of friction materials owing to its plentiful surface‐active groups and distinctive framework structure. In this study, copper‐based metal–organic frameworks was synthesized through ultrasound‐assisted method and incorporated alone into carbon fiber reinforced epoxy composites or together with SiO2 nanoparticles towards the goal of improving the composites' friction and wear properties. It is revealed that copper‐based metal–organic frameworks alone cannot improve the friction and wear of carbon fiber reinforced epoxy composites simultaneously. The combination of copper‐based metal–organic frameworks and SiO2 nanoparticles was more effective in enhancing both the mechanical and tribological properties of studied composites. The composite material exhibits a friction coefficient of 0.104 under the specified test conditions of 10 MPa and 3.75 m/s. Additionally, the specific wear rate is impressively low, measuring only 5.64 × 10−7 mm3 N/m. Through morphological and chemical analysis on the worn surfaces and transfer films, the functioning mechanism of copper‐based metal–organic frameworks in modifying the mechanical and tribological properties was discussed. It was discovered that a tribological synergy exists between short carbon fibers, copper‐based metal–organic frameworks, and SiO2 fillers, leading to a shift in the wear mechanism of the composite materials from abrasive wear to adhesive wear. Concurrently, a shear‐prone transfer film forms on the surface of the counter steel surfaces. Findings of the present study pave a new route of designing high performance epoxy based tribo‐composites by using metal–organic frameworks.Highlights Cu‐BDC nanosheets were synthesized using ultrasound‐assisted techniques and incorporated as tribological fillers in EP composites. The combined use of Cu‐BDC, SiO2, and SCF fillers synergistically enhances the mechanical and tribological properties of EP composites. The composite material exhibits a friction coefficient of 0.104 under the specified test conditions of 10 MPa and 3.75 m/s, the specific wear rate is impressively low, measuring only 5.64 × 10−7 mm3N/m. During the sliding friction process of the composite materials, Cu‐BDC and SiO2 play a crucial role in reducing SCF pull‐out wear through their anchoring effect. The dynamic coordination bond structure of Cu‐BDC contributes to the formation of uniform and continuous transfer films on counter metal surfaces.