Abstract Background The study aimed to describe parents’ experiences of communication with school nurses concerning the growth data and weight development of their children aged 8 and 10 years old in Sweden. Methods The design was descriptive and qualitative. 15 women and 3 men in south Sweden were included, with children who had performed health visits in the School Health Service (SHS). Data were collected through in - person semi structured interviews. Qualitative content analysis was used. Results The results illustrated the health visit’s purpose as unclear with need for improved dialogue and lacking feedback from the SHS. “To be able to get guidelines of what is the normal growth and what is a normal deviation and maybe a bit more about diet and lifestyle and movement.” The need for an improved channel for receiving information from SHS, and access to their child’s growth data. “Couldn’t they have a school nurse site or information page, where you get information about your child from the day they enroll in school until they leave.” Parents experienced a lack of a child-centered perspective, described the child’s context as not in focus, and desired collaboration. “I think that it is very important that children feel good in their bodies, and that is a really important task for health care.” Conclusions (a) Initiating a discussion regarding the preventive health work of school nurses and the main assignment of SHS. (b) Development of a child-centered perspective towards parents and children with focus on the child’s entire social context. (c) Implementation of evidence-based methods for communicating growth data and weight development between SHS and parents. Key messages • An increased dialogue between parents and SHS was requested, with a reachable way of communication via a digital platform. • A holistic view of the child, with positive professional attitudes seem essential to meet the needs of the child.