Understanding the sources of losses and chemical reactions of ultracold alkali-metal molecules is among the critical elements needed for their application in precision measurements and quantum technologies. Recent experiments with nonreactive systems have reported unexpectedly large loss rates, posing a challenge for theoretical explanation. Here, we examine the dynamics of intermediate four-atom complexes formed in bimolecular collisions. We calculate the nuclear spin--rotation, spin--spin, and quadrupole coupling constants for bialkali tetramers using ab intio quantum-chemical methods. We show that the nuclear spin--spin and quadrupole couplings are strong enough to couple different rotational manifolds to increase the density of states and lifetimes of the collision complexes, which is consistent with experimental results. We propose further experiments to confirm our predictions.