To address the challenges associated with the high gas content, high pressure, and low permeability coefficient in deep coal seams, strategies such as infilling boreholes and increasing the negative pressure of extraction are commonly implemented to alleviate issues related to coalbed methane extraction. However, long-term mining pressure can lead to the development of cracks in the coal seam near the borehole, thereby creating air leakage channels, which could potentially impact the oxygen supply during the extraction process. This leads to secondary disasters such as the spontaneous combustion of coal and gas explosions, considerably impacting the life and health of underground workers. To solve this issue, a thermal-fluid-solid coupling model for the working surface was constructed based on numerical simulation software, taking into account the multimechanism coupling effect of coal seam gas. The laws of coal oxidation and spontaneous combustion induced by coalbed methane extraction around boreholes were studied. The variation laws of the oxygen concentration, coal temperature, and oxidation heating zone around the borehole under different extraction conditions were simulated and analyzed. The findings demonstrate that the negative extraction pressure enables the gas to penetrate the fracture zone of the borehole, leading to an increase in the oxygen consumption rate and coal temperature around the borehole with an increase in negative extraction pressure. The coal gas leakage surrounding the borehole reduces as the sealing depth increases, and both the heating rate of coal and oxygen volume fraction show a downward trend. The fitting relationship between the negative pressure of drainage, depth of sealing, and temperature change in the coal body surrounding the boreholes was identified. It was determined that the negative pressure of 13 kPa for borehole drainage and a sealing depth >18 m are the optimal extraction parameters. The range of the oxidation zone and the position of the boundary line under this parameter were predicted, and the position function of the dangerous area of oxidation heating was defined. The research results have remarkable implications for the coordinated prevention and control of gas and coal spontaneous combustion in coalbed methane predrainage boreholes, as well as for efficient prevention and control of CO in on-site gas extraction boreholes, thus ensuring efficient and safe gas extraction.