Methionine (Met) can inhibit plant diseases caused by phytopathogens. However, the effect of Met on gray mold resulted from Botrytis cinerea in tomato is still unclear. This study showed 5 mM Met alleviated disease development of gray mold, enhanced chitinase (CHI) and β-1, 3-glucanase (GNS) activities and the expression of SlCHI, SlGNS, SlPR1 and SlNPR1 in tomatoes, rather than inhibited the growth of B. cinerea directly. Moreover, ethylene biosynthesis and signal transduction before pathogen inoculating were induced by 5 mM Met. Interestingly, Met reduced the nitrosylation levels of ACS4 and ACO6, enhanced the activities of nitric oxide synthase, nitrite reductase (NR) and S-nitrosoglutathione reductase (GSNOR) and the expression of SlNR and SlGSNOR. Tomatoes treated with aminoethoxyvinylglycine and carboxy-PTIO exhibited lower resistance to B. cinerea. These results indicate 5 mM Met promoted ethylene biosynthesis and signal transduction to facilitate NO synthesis and metabolism, enhancing the resistance of tomatoes to B. cinerea.