AbstractThis article discusses finite‐time lag bipartite (FETLB) synchronization of double‐layer networks with non‐linear coupling strength and multiple time delays. The cooperative and competitive interactions between nodes are considered based on signed graphs. To address the non‐linear couplings strength, the T‐S fuzzy logic theory is used. An intermittent control approach is introduced to achieve FETLB synchronization, effectively minimizing control costs. Moreover, by the Lyapunov functional method, we derive criteria for achieving FETLB synchronization and provide estimations for the synchronization settling time. In addition, numerical simulation affirms the validity of the theoretical findings, showcasing the practical application of the synchronization results in secure communication.