The quality of avionics thermistor wire solder joints has a critical impact on the performance of in-orbit spacecraft. However, it is still hard to simultaneously realize a high-precision inspection of the multi-scale internal and external defects of avionics solder joints. Herein, in combination with active infrared thermography technique, an innovative DBHF detector with a double fusion backbone and a learnable weighted multi-scale bidirectional feature hybrid fusion pyramid network (BdFPN) is demonstrated based on RT-DETR framework. Specifically, the double fusion backbone framework comprises with two lightweight convolutional neural network-based backbones. Compared with conventional single backbone, the double-backbone design forms a multi-level Resnet-like structure, helping to enrich the extracted multi-dimension feature information and retain rich detail information of small-scale defects. The complex learnable weighted multi-scale BdFPN is designed for cross fusion of deep features. One or more additional multi-scale inputs are added to each node involved in feature fusion to aggregate more features from multiple scales and strengthen the interaction between low-level details and high-level semantic information, enabling the detector to make full use of multi-level feature information. Meanwhile, a learnable weight coefficient is set on each node involved in feature fusion and the importance of the input to each node is estimated by training, so that the effective information can be deeply aggregated at different levels. Our DBHF detector achieves a 92.7 % mAP@0.5 on a self-made avionics solder joint dataset with a body size of only 27.2 MB and FPS of 149, outperforming all the typical advanced real-time detectors.