‘Would I risk it again?’ The long-term impacts of a traumatic birth, as experienced by fathers

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ABSTRACT Background Extensive research has explored the impact of traumatic births on mothers, capturing enduring adverse outcomes as well as post-traumatic growth. The literature on fathers‘ experiences of birth trauma is more limited and little is known of the ongoing impact. The present study aimed to investigate the long-term effects of attending a traumatic birth. Method Semi-structured interviews were completed with fathers who identified as having a traumatic birth experience two or more years ago. Thematic analysis was conducted on eight interview transcripts. Results Despite the time since the birth trauma, fathers described ongoing impact, which is captured in five themes. Four of these focus on the negative impacts: their attempts to cope by boxing away emotions, which they thought they should not feel; anxieties over having further children; negative effects on parenting; and ongoing distress or negative impact on their wellbeing. The final theme highlighted some positives from the experience, primarily a strengthened relationship with their partner. Conclusions Traumatic birth can result in fathers experiencing difficulties beyond the perinatal period, whilst thinking that they should not feel or discuss their distress. As a result of a traumatic birth fathers can experience ongoing guilt and poor mental health, which may lead them to delay subsequent pregnancies. Most participants had not accessed support regarding the traumatic birth, instead coping by trying to avoid their memories and emotional reaction. These findings highlight the need for increased acknowledgement of the impact of birth trauma and intervention for fathers, during and after the perinatal period.