Unge kvinners erfaringer med seksuell vold i intime relasjoner: en kvalitativ studie

Abstract

Objective: This paper aims to explore young women’s experiences of sexual violence in intimate relationships during adolescence. Method: The sample consisted of eight young women (17–23 years of age) who were individually interviewed about their experiences of sexual violence in an intimate, heterosexual relationship. The interviews were analysed using interpretative phenomenological analysis. Results: The analysis highlights how the young women experienced the relationship as binding, in spite of the violence and rape. Positive emotions and limited sexual experience kept them from breaking up. The women’s experiences of sexual violence created shame, low self-esteem and confusion about who they were. Confirmation of the abuse and clarification of blame in new relationships were crucial to the healing process. In summary, this study indicates that young women who experience sexual violence during adolescence can struggle to end the relationship. A growing need for autonomy may raise the threshold for seeking help. An ongoing exploration of social roles, norms and identity may create uncertainty about what is expected of them as sexual partners as well as feelings of confusion, shame and guilt brought about by the abuse. Implications: Helpers such as healthcare professionals and social workers who work with young people, are curious about intimate relationships generally, and ask specific and non-judgemental questions about experiences of sexual violence may lower the threshold for sharing experiences of sexual abuse and aid the healing process. Keywords: qualitative, sexual abuse, sexual violence, adolescence