The Lived Experiences of Filipino Transfeminine Young Adults in Building Romantic Relationships with a Cisgender Man

Abstract

Limited studies are available about trans-cis romantic relationships in the Philippines, making it difficult to understand their dynamics. Therefore, this study explores the experiences of transfeminine young adults in building romantic relationships with cisgender men to understand their subjective experiences and provide support for these individuals. This qualitative phenomenological study involved conducting semi-structured interviews with 8 transfeminine young adults aged 18 to 25 years old who are involved in romantic relationships with cisgender men in the City of Cabuyao, Laguna. The participants were selected using both purposive and snowball sampling techniques. Thematic analysis was conducted to analyze and interpret the qualitative gathered data to look at the patterns of meaning of the participants’ lived experiences. The findings revealed a diverse range of information about their lived experiences. Despite facing various obstacles and negative societal attitudes, the participants demonstrated remarkable resilience, independence, and empowerment. These individuals navigated their relationships with confidence and autonomy, defying stereotypes, societal resistance, and differing viewpoints, thereby challenging preconceived notions and societal expectations. Themes related to relationship challenges, the influence of social media, diverse experiences, social resistance, and self-determination emerged. The study highlighted the importance of societal acceptance, awareness, and efforts to break down stereotypes.