The Disclosure to Families of Same-Sex Attractions by Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual Youths

Abstract

Developmental psychologists generally have ignored the processes by which sexual-minority adolescents come to recognize themselves as gay, lesbian, or bisexual and to disclose that information to others. One of the most critical events for sexual-minority adolescents is disclosing their sexual identity to family members. In this article, empirical research is addressed that documents the percentage of youths who disclose to their families, the time during the coming-out process that youths disclose to family members, and the manner in which disclosure occurs. Mother-father differences are explored, and, when applicable, data on disclosure to siblings and extended family members are reviewed. The implications of these findings for youths, parents, and the family system are summarized and future research needs are suggested.