Talking With Your Children About Racism: Start, Continue the Conversation

Abstract

Racism and discrimination harms everyone in our communities.As a parent, you must assume children of almost any age may experience racism first-hand or are exposed to racism. Children may be called names or bullied. They may also overhear adult conversations, see online videos, or watch news coverage of actions ranging from unfair treatment or unkind words to violent protests or hate crimes. Some actions may make children feel afraid for their own safety or their family's safety. They might have questions about why people are hurting other people.Ideally you can talk with them first, in ways they can understand, before they hear about it from other sources. When talking to your children, keep the following tips in mind:It's OK to acknowledge that people are treated differently based on the color of their skin and where they live and share examples of this happening. But this is also an opportunity to show your children how to make a positive difference. For example, perhaps your family can call your city council person or superintendent to advocate for issues faced by communities of color. Think about how you might confront your own biases and show how you want your children to respond to others who may be different than them.If we are to progress in this country, it's going to be because we help our children, adolescents and young adults learn not just that racism exists, but that it is something all of us can work together to dismantle.Adapted from the HealthyChildren.org article Talking to Children about Racism: The Time is Now by Nia Heard-Garris, MD, MSc, FAAP, and Jacqueline Dougé, MD, MPH, FAAP (1/7/2021).The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) is an organization of 67,000 primary care pediatricians, pediatric medical subspecialists, and pediatric surgical specialists dedicated to the health, safety, and well-being of all infants, children, adolescents, and young adults.In all aspects of its publishing program (writing, review, and production), the AAP is committed to promoting principles of equity, diversity, and inclusion.The information contained in this publication should not be used as a substitute for the medical care and advice of your pediatrician. There may be variations in treatment that your pediatrician may recommend based on individual facts and circumstances.