Spiritual and Scientific Benefits of Iddah (Waiting Period) to Muslim Widow and Divorcee

Abstract

Iddah is basically a waiting period, defined by Allah so that if any pregnancy has occurred just before the spouse’s death or separation, the fatherhood of that pregnancy should be clearly identified. With the advent of modern technology, the Islamic rule of Iddah is criticized stating that the months’ long wait in getting re-married is outdated. This research work investigates the adherence practices of widows and divorcee to this legislation of Iddah along with its associated benefits. The methodology followed the descriptive approach of literature review of jurisprudence books and regulations regarding Iddah. In addition, a survey was conducted to investigate 45 Muslim divorced and widow women’s experiences of Iddah. Thematic method was used to analyse the data. About 95% of participants showed understanding of Iddah as a mean of determining paternity, reconciliation and worshiping. Sadness and mourning were important features in divorce and widow cases, respectively and community and civic support were available during Iddah. During Iddah which represents 3-4 menstrual cycles, the repeated shedding of the endometrium necessitates complete repair and regeneration of the denuded surface. This may be viewed as an inevitable consequence of reproductive quality control and benefit in reproductive success when a widow or divorcee re-marry.